
Christmas night is a time for reflection. Candles shimmer against windows, their flames dissolving faint blooms of frost. From the trees, crystal garlands flash diminuitive rainbows around emptied and darkening rooms, while our weary but still excited children find their faces mirrored in eyes gentled by love. On Christmas night, shadows of imagination bend and play like winter branches in a wind. Set free to wander, the mind gathers its scattered thoughts into baskets of memory and brings them home, examining every exquisite detail in the light of acceptance, seeking significance and wisdom in their patterns.
This Christmas night, as I reflect on our celebration of the day, I find myself less concerned with commercialism than with sentimentality. With Baby Jesus safely tucked away into his manger, we’re easily tempted to sigh at the loveliness of his mother, admire the steadfastness of his father, give a nod to the humble surroundings of the stable and go our way. As a society, we have little taste for the exigencies of history or the necessities of time. Everyone knows the parent who sees their 40-year old offspring as a child, and at Christmas, that same view of things can lead us to consign even the Christ Child to eternal infancy.
Life doesn’t allow for such freeze-frames, of course. Even with our own children, gazing in delight at the innocent babe in the bassinet is only the beginning. Soon enough comes colic and teething, followed closely by the Terrible Twos. Eventually, the orthodontists, tutors or therapists come knocking at our door. One day the driver’s license becomes unavoidable, as does that awkward young man with the skateboard and tattoo who wants to depart with a daughter in tow. Sometimes, life hands out worse: a call from jail on Saturday night, the suspension from school, terrible choices in friends. Illness diverts the flow of life, or accidental injury. Life is chancy at best, and unpredictable - we never know what’s around the bend, heading straight for us, perfectly capable of doing in our children, and us along with them.
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In countries less fortunate than the United States, the great irony is that life for children can be more predictable, yet less survivable. Preventable diseases like measles and malaria, environmental scourges like shistosomiasis and simple malnutrition decimate the ranks of children on a regular and predictable basis. Violence, insurrection, civil war and genocide kill and displace hundreds of thousands every year. While our celebrations romanticize a single stable, children born today into stables and barns, refugee camps, colonias, barrios and slums around the world suffer and die. They are defenseless, with few advocates, and their needs rarely are considered. They are innocents in every sense of the word. They have done nothing to deserve their fate.
The Christian Feast of The Holy Innocents, celebrated only three days after Christmas on December 28, commemorates the death of other unnamed children. As the New Testament tells it, Rome’s man in Judea already was wearing his crown a little uneasily when Jesus was born. Given to tyranical and repressive behavior, King Herod lived in a state of hypervigilance, fearing Rome and his own subjects equally. After a visit from the Magi, the traditional Three Kings who prophesied the birth of another, more powerful King capable of usurping his authority, Herod ordered all first-born baby boys of Bethlehem slaughtered. Whether the massacre is historical fact and no matter how many children actually were killed, the Feast Day stands as a reminder that power is not always kindly disposed toward innocence. In every age and across a multitude of circumstances, power seeks to maintain itself even at the expense of the defenseless.
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One of the most poignant and mournful of Christmas songs commemorates the killing of those infants by the famously paranoid King Herod. Named for the city of Coventry, England, the 16th century Coventry Carol was part of the Medieval Pageant of the Shearmen and Tailors. The Pageant itself may have roots in 14th century morality plays that tradesmen provided as entertainment for the towns, but in any event it is one of the oldest unadapted carols we have. It retains both its original tune (English melody, 1591) and lyrics (words attributed to Robert Croo, 1534) Both were first recorded in 1591, and their preservation makes the Coventry Mystery Plays especially memorable.
Coventry Carol ~ The Cambridge Singers
Lully, Lullay, Thou little tiny Child
By, by, lully, lullay
Lullay, Thou little Tiny Child
By, by, lully, lullay.
O sisters, too, how may we do
For to preserve this day,
This poor Youngling for whom we do sing
By, by, lully, lullay.
Herod the King, in his raging,
Charged he hath this day;
His men of might, in his own sight,
All young children to slay.
Then woe is me, poor child for thee,
And ever mourn and sigh
For thy parting, neither say nor sing,
By, by, lully, lullay.
Lully, Lullay, Thou little tiny Child,
By, by, lully, lullay.
Lullay, Thou little tiny Child,
By, by, lully, lullay.
This is not a carol preferred by retailers. Far too reflective, far too straightforward in its recognition of innocent death, it rarely is heard in congregational settings or found in collections of popular Christmas music. Medievalists love it, as do madrigal groups and chamber singers, but it isn’t Joy to the World, Silent Night or Hark, the Herald Angels Sing. Given a choice between a lovely familial scene bathed in golden light and a feast which points directly toward the slaughter of children, even this violence-ridden culture seems to hesitate. Despite their richness and depth, and perhaps because of their unapologetic realism, some Christmas customs, traditions and songs which were favored for centuries are rarely experienced today. They are too archaic in language, too bleak in tone, too reflective of realities we would prefer to ignore.
Ignoring reality has its own perils, of course. As it was for the child called Christ and his unfortunate companions in time, so it is for our own children and for the unknown innocents hidden throughout the world. Birth is only the beginning. Life is movement, time passes and history continues to unfold. If Herod is gone, his successors live on, determined to preserve their positions and power at the expense of innocence.
We are free to turn away from history, just as we are free to imagine ourselves innocent of complicity in events unfolding in time. But we cannot profess to love the Babe in the manger while continuing to ignore the needs of children living among us. If we can bring ourselves to see in Bethlehem’s stall every child of Christmas, if we dare to preserve against slaughter every poor Youngling for whom angels sing, we may yet free them from the world’s hand, transforming their song of darkness into a dance of light.
Dancing Coventry Carol ~ Farah Canale, Principal, Anchorage Ballet
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Hello Linda,
I thought of many things while reading your post… A friend of mine who lost her son in a car accident several years ago. He will forever be a handsome, 18 year old young man, preserved in memory. I thought of my own children, all the privileges and opportunities afforded them by virtue of simply being born in the U.S. to parents who love and are blessed with the means to care for them. And yet, even for my own kids, I see the danger should they be lured into the vanity of this world, the pitfall of them trusting the temporal nature of happiness based on possessions and the “American Dream”.
I thought of the layer of pain that necessarily wraps itself around a mother’s heart. It’s unavoidable, inevitable, and inextricably woven into the cords of maternal love. The mothers who lost their children to Herod’s madness knew that pain. The mothers who watch their children grow up amidst violence and suffering in this present age know it, too.
Truly, faith without works is useless and dead and not really faith at all. Thank you for reminding me of that.
Hi, Tee,
Faith, works and motherhood. How they do interweave themselves through our lives. I just was smiling, thinking over how many words the theologians have written about the relationship of faith and works, when it is so simple. A mother who says, “I love my baby” while refusing to provide milk or formula, clean diapers, a safe sleeping place and blankets, disproves her words by her actions. She may very well feel something, but she isn’t loving the child as he or she deserves.
In the same way, all of us are called to “mother” the forgotten children of the world – not merely to feel some vague emotion when confronted with their existence, but to act on their behalf. I learned just today that a blogger I’ve come to know on another site is headed back into Zimbabwe to help with the cholera outbreak there. That’s faith and works combined in a particularly difficult situation. One of the ironies is that the “faith” called for in such situations is very much the faith that the works will make some difference in the end.
In some ways, his is the easier task. Those of us living our comfortable lives here have to work a little harder – at remembering, and at knowing how to respond.
Thanks so much for your stimulating comment. Best wishes to you and yours for the continuing holiday season, and the year to come.
Linda
[...] I saw another post about Coventry Carol just yesterday, “The Children of Coventry’s Carol” at The Task at Hand, a thoughtful and beautifully reflective [...]
This is beautifully expressed. Thank you.
Jess,
How kind of you to say so. Thank you for coming by for a read, and thank you especially for commenting.
Linda
Linda,
There are so many things that make good writing and a good writer, not the least of which is point of view, some sort of world grasp.
This entry of yours exemplifies what I mean; you have a wonderful perception, a knife edge discreetly delivered, and a way with words that delivers meaning, a greater “picture.” Bravo.
Wishing you a continued peaceful joyous Holiday season!
oh,
It seems an eon since I wrote my essay Reading, Writing and Thinking: A Paradigm for Blogging. I’m even more convinced the three have to be held in balance. Beautiful words about nothing simply don’t hold up.
Thanks so much for stopping by, and for the gracious words. I feel a bit like a high-wire walker these days. Words like yours are the balance pole.
Linda
Hi Linda -
I found your post while searching for authorship of ‘Coventry Carol’ in order that all info be posted for a newly recorded acoustic version of piano and guitar by JanElaine Eller and Chip Martin. I realize this is an older post, yet not only are your comments beautifully expressed, the added lyrics and YouTube posts create such a nice Post. I just wanted to comment and say thank you.
Wishing you and yours a joyous holiday season!
Warm regards,
Janet
Janet,
How kind of you to leave your comment. One of the beauties of such posts is that while they may be “older”, chronologically, they have a certain timelessness and can be enjoyed over and over. I certainly enjoyed re-reading it myself, and listening to the music.
Best wishes for your endeavor. I did stop by and listened to some of the Eller/Martin Christmas project. It’s just lovely, and makes me eager for the season.
best wishes,
Linda